Getting married

Process

Click talk

So important, a mutual click for a future collaboration. Does my personality, personal approach and flexibility suit you? We can quickly find out during a short (online) introduction. Ask me all your questions and see if I fit your needs. If we click, we can discuss my availability right away. Feel free to send me an email and we'll plan a meeting.

In-depth interview

An inspiring moment; approximately 6 weeks before the wedding date we start preparing for a personal and unique ceremony. No standard questionnaire in advance / a short introductory chat, but an extensive conversation in which I really want to get to know you. Your life story, dreams and expectations are discussed. I listen and ask stimulating questions, see how you interact with each other and note down the spontaneous interactions. I take plenty of time for this conversation. I discuss all the possibilities for the wedding ceremony, so that you get a clear picture of how everything can be shaped. We pay a lot of attention to your wishes, special situations, the legal witnesses, any children and their possible role. Do you want to promise each other something or would you rather have me put this into words? We will brainstorm together and I will come up with proposals and ideas to make your wedding day unique and personal. It is your day and everything is negotiable and possible.

Preparation

The wedding day

With all the input from the in-depth conversation, and if desired from best friends and/or witnesses, I get to work. I strive to create a personal and unique ceremony. Thanks to my talent for connecting, I create a relaxed atmosphere. In my speech, I weave emotions and humor naturally.

Well before the ceremony I am present to experience the atmosphere and to discuss the last details, for example with the master of ceremonies. And then...then we start with the love party! Sometimes not everything goes as planned. Whether it is a crying child or a stuttering microphone, it does not matter. In unexpected situations I'm at my best!

Rate:

For a English celebration ceremony I charge €950,-. What do you get for this:

• (Digital) click talk

• Mileage to/from the in-depth interview and wedding location, within the region*

• In-depth interview

• Easy contact through a whatsapp group with the three of us

• Contact with 1-2 relatives per person (friends, family and/or witnesses) for extra information and exciting stories 😊

• The writing and preparation of a tailor-made ceremony, completely tailored to you

• The most loving, intimate, unforgettable and festive ceremony ever

And then the "small print":

• * Do you live and/or marry more than 20 km from Veldhoven? Then 24 cents per kilometer will be added

• The terms and conditions of Fleurjehuwelijkop can be found here

​Process:

Official or ceremonial?

I am a sworn marriage officer and work as a BABS in the municipality of Helmond. I was sworn in by the court of Den Bosch and I am therefore allowed to connect you in real life. A marriage by “Fleur je huwelijk op” is therefore very official.

Please note: when applying for a marriage at the municipality where you will get married, you need to indicate that an external wedding officiant will be used. This may involve costs. These extra costs - combined with the municipal fee that you also have to pay - are often a reason for couples to arrange the paperwork on a Monday morning and have a ceremonial wedding with a wedding officiant of their choice.

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So with my efforts, both options are possible!